chewing gum

jsk good morning,
                           When i was 10 years old, i remember whenever we had small fights with our siblings or cousin
my mom always used to say they are sweet fights or quarrel's.
my fight was to always want to sit next to my  sister in the car,theater,home wherever she was i would run and sit next to her and they would  push me ,you always sit,next to her its our turn now, things like that. I see that often between my husband and his brother, sweet fights   .Now these fights, what i now hear are so different. They are no more sweet fights they are like chewing gum fight, when you put the gum in your mouth you enjoy just for a minute, but then the flavor is gone  and it becomes rubbery and you still keep chewing it mindlessly, for hours and hours.
  Just for today make your fight,argument,anger,judgment ,disagreement a box of sweets, instead of chewing gum  pack.
What happens when you eat sweet it just melts in your mouth and the taste remains in your mouth for hours.
Next time, melt your fight in seconds, keep that forgiving taste in your mouth for hours and hours.
If you do have a fight have a box of sweet fight today.
take care
love you
nima